What about zero?
Whenever we go “either or,” we miss the point.
The universe has more than whatever “segment” we create. All discussions must include zero.
In mathematics, it is the “null” set. Your idea is not complete if you don’t recognize the “null” set, or zero.
Remember that when you give someone two choices. We rarely consider it, and as a result, our ideas are incomplete.
Keep that in mind the next time you hear (or you tell) someone either this or that.